More serendipity thanks to @DigitalWoman

Nelly Yusupova @DigitalWoman

Nelly Yusupova @DigitalWoman

It has been over a month since my first ever blog post which was on creating your own serendipity. Well here I go again - more self-made serendipity when I attended Nelly Yusupova's @DigitalWoman Build Your Social Media Footprint workshop at ThoughtWorks in NYC yesterday. As I told my fellow attendees on introducing myself, I was the definition of an outlier as the only male with 30+ women who are part of NYCWebGrrls. Luckily they didn't hold that against me.

As CTO of WebGrrls for many years, Nelly herself is an outlier. She is a very knowledgeable technologist helping other women understand how to survive in a technological jungle, providing a map for not just how to stay out of trouble, but to succeed in building web-based businesses by avoiding classic mistakes which can often be very expensive, if not deadly.

In recent years Nelly realized that beyond technology itself, social media is another confusing landscape that throws a lot of early stage companies, as well as individuals trying to build personal brands, for a loop. I spent a fair amount of time experimenting with social media the past couple of years in different contexts. The first foray for me was inspired by (a creation of the Roche brothers, Matt and Jamie, in SF) which unfortunately ended up in mothballs, at least for now. was a powerful visual curation tool, an early competitor to Pinterest, which left it in the dust. Its one claim to fame was the ability to create independent archival working copies of any webpage, not just providing links to them. This view was rooted in Matt and Jamie's B2B experience, unlike the pure consumer focus of Pinterest which won out. Nonetheless, for close to a year I used to curate and share content on entrepreneurship, startups, technology and a few other subjects. With I could track in detail not just views but the actual reads of the "Bolts" I was posting to Twitter, Facebook, Tumblr, LinkedIn and Pinterest. I discovered and used Bufferapp to simplify the actual mechanics of posting. However, in spite of all that experimentation which led to over 50,000 reads in about 9 months, I didn't really develop a clear vision of how to lay out and implement a full fledged social media strategy, much less advise anyone else on how to do it. That is what Nelly took us through yesterday.

After 9 hours with Nelly and the Webgrrls I left with a much deeper understanding of the power of a well planned social media strategy rooted in a careful rethink of my personal brand - a work in progress starting this week with Twitter, a cleanup on Facebook, LinkedIn, Google+, Pinterest, Tumblr and maybe even Instagram to follow in the coming weeks. Nelly didn't just cover the basics, she went deep and turned us on to some very powerful advanced "hacks" to help build a community of true followers. As I actively contemplate another startup, in the educational space this time, I realize how critically important it is to lay the groundwork of a more clearly articulated personal brand, thanks to Nelly.  

Beyond the serendipity of discovering Nelly through a recent acquaintance, Mary Juetten  of Phoenix-based legal startup Traklight, the icing on the cake yesterday was networking with the Webgrrls. I found lots of overlap with my fellow attendees and am looking forward to followup on a number of fronts. Beyond that I have lots of new information to share with my School of Visual Arts graduate students in the Design for Social Innovation department who are currently building 6 startups. Given my audience yesterday, I took the opportunity to tell the story of one SVA student startup to the WebGrrls. Lovability founded by Tiffany Gaines is focused on women's health and empowerment, attacking the stigma of the purchase of condoms by women. Lovability has created and is distributing a line of condoms designed for women by women sold where women feel comfortable shopping e.g. beauty stores, lingerie shops and other types of boutiques as well as on the web. I was anxious to test Lovability's message with a target audience of women on my own. The feedback was amazingly positive.

Final note: Nelly also has two other workshops coming up under her Tech Speak for Entrepreneurs , her "how to navigate in the tech jungle" workshop. I would highly recommend Nelly to anyone, male or female, on either social media or tech speak! Another way you can make your own serendipity too.